Now what?
March 25th, 2010One of my favorite scenes in a film is from the movie “Finding Nemo”. All of the fish have wanted escape so badly, they have all desired their freedom so much and like so many of us they failed to anticipate that their wants might just create more wants. So the fish all hop out of the dentists office, they roll down a hill and into the ocean… and the puffer fish looks at the other fish and says “Now what?”
When we follow the history of how money came to exist it was simply a way to handle trade in a fair and honest manner. I grow corn, you grow beans but I don’t need beans so instead I give you this “money” that we all agree is valued at a certain amount of beans. Everybody wins, we all have the ability to trade even if we don’t need to barter. Yay!
However money has now become the defacto standard, it used to be a way to trade, now it is the ONLY way to trade.
Perhaps this is the kind of post that one only begins when they have been fortunate financially. Research has shown that money really does not make people happy unless it drastically changes your life. 10 dollars to you or me probably does not mean much, but give it to a bum living under a bridge and you’ve just made his week, he feels rich and can now eat! Take somebody who is struggling to pay rent and give them a raise of 15k a year and they are now more secure and more happy accordingly.
Take however somebody who has 30 million dollars (which is the number that defines super-wealthy). Is there anything that this person can’t do? Is there anything they can’t buy or any experience they can’t have? Yes there is the argument about love and I will bow to that argument, but there are very few experiences that one can not purchase with cold hard cash.
Take the average joe, or even a fairly well to do person and look at their lives and goals. For the most part everybody has something or some activity they are really wanting to do, something they are saving for (a new bigger house, a new better car, a trip to Bali, or just simply security and retirement.) People have goals and things they want for, and those wants give them things to talk about, dream about, hope about and an incentive to wake up and work every day.
So take this person with a stock pile of money, real estate, staff, cars, boats, planes… and ask them what interests them. Most of them will tell you that they are pretty bored. All the money in the world bought them one particular thing that they didn’t even intend to buy… a lack of wants.
Wants give us incentives. If you are lonely you want love. If you are poor you want wealth. If you are sick you want health. Some wealthy people find that they can create a game of wealth, they have 50 mil, they want 100mil so they can prove something.
Anyways, there isn’t a huge point to this post except that the truth is that money buys material things. Those things are nice, they are fun to play with for about 30 minutes, but when you turn around and realize you want for nothing I have to imagine that is a lonely and sad place to be.
